Anyone know which wires are the video wires to the rear view mirror. I want to move the video to the aftermarket stereo,

 

More information is needed for a decent answer to your quest.
What aftermarket stereo do you have?
Most aftermarket stereos with a display for back up video have their own connection requirements outside rear view mirror wiring,
You may best be taking your question to a stereo forum or seller.

 

just get a new AHD camera.

That's what I did. Stock camera sux. Still in place, but not used.