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Guys~
I rec'd a PM from Christian (Ruttdog) where he shared a conversation with me that he had with Sarah (LawWyfe). He sent me the PM for the reasons you will see below... honestly, I’m pissed, I don't know what to say about it, or how to handle it. I know how I want to handle it, but I don't want to cause a bunch of ****.
First, she says she “speculates” that I had something to do with his (meaning Dennis) recent attitude change? What the fukk??
Dennis was “possessive” with me? That’s news to me!! 
She doesn’t want to gossip but goes on and absolutely insinuates that Dennis and I had a thing! Which is why he made me a MOD, simply so I would have access to a MOD chat room, which we all know doesn’t even exist. Well, I should say if you guys hang out in a chat room, I have no knowledge of it. If Dennis and I had wanted to chat in a chat room, he wouldn’t have had to make me a moderator on this forum - chat rooms are a dime a dozen.
Anyway, as I recall wasn’t it you that asked me about being a mod, Patrick?
I don’t really know why I’m putting this out here for you guys, I guess simply to make you aware. I don’t know what to do … I want to send her a message and not so nicely tell her to shut the fukk up and stop talking about things she has no clue about … to STOP speculating to others that Dennis and I had a thing. And I do plan to do this once I hear back from Christian, I don't want to put him in the middle or make him feel uncomfortable. Or, maybe, I should post a thread so that others that have been told this will know as well and I am pretty sure there are others.
For the record, Christian sent me this out of concern for what was being said about me. I thanked him for it and I really do appreciate it.
I rec'd a PM from Christian (Ruttdog) where he shared a conversation with me that he had with Sarah (LawWyfe). He sent me the PM for the reasons you will see below... honestly, I’m pissed, I don't know what to say about it, or how to handle it. I know how I want to handle it, but I don't want to cause a bunch of ****.
"Perhaps you are blocked because you did involve yourself as well by requesting to know what all happened in a post and you have the LE thing in common with JDrew...??? Coupled with the fact that you flirted with Paige? (Whom I speculate has something to do with his recent attitude change anyway...) I dunno..who knows what goes thru people's minds sometimes..."
"NOOO NOOO hun, I think you are misunderstanding what I have said. I was not saying any of it was right OR wrong...I was just offering SPECULATION or possible reasons as to Dennis's mood changes and things that transpired. I don't really have a clue as I am not communicating with him, nor did I ever all that often. I don't wish to gossip but I go by all that I read on the forum publicly (and that everyone else was able to read and have their own opinions on) and I read between the lines. I also know to take most of what is read on the Internet with a grain of salt...and for what it's worth - which is usually nothing! LOL I never said Paige had a problem with the flirtations with you. I did notice that Dennis was rather possessive with her and the flirtations...as in an "Internet thing." I also believe that was one reason she was made a MOD...for the access of the MODS chatroom. We ALL flirt (ok many do LOL) and most all are married...it's usually harmless and just in good fun...however some take it more seriously than others do sometimes.
And should you have been shunned/deleted, etc? NO...again I was merely offering speculation/ideas as to why it might have possibly happened. Again, I don't know. I might add that a couple of my posts were deleted also and they said nothing about the mess going on. "
And should you have been shunned/deleted, etc? NO...again I was merely offering speculation/ideas as to why it might have possibly happened. Again, I don't know. I might add that a couple of my posts were deleted also and they said nothing about the mess going on. "
She doesn’t want to gossip but goes on and absolutely insinuates that Dennis and I had a thing! Which is why he made me a MOD, simply so I would have access to a MOD chat room, which we all know doesn’t even exist. Well, I should say if you guys hang out in a chat room, I have no knowledge of it. If Dennis and I had wanted to chat in a chat room, he wouldn’t have had to make me a moderator on this forum - chat rooms are a dime a dozen.
Anyway, as I recall wasn’t it you that asked me about being a mod, Patrick?
I don’t really know why I’m putting this out here for you guys, I guess simply to make you aware. I don’t know what to do … I want to send her a message and not so nicely tell her to shut the fukk up and stop talking about things she has no clue about … to STOP speculating to others that Dennis and I had a thing. And I do plan to do this once I hear back from Christian, I don't want to put him in the middle or make him feel uncomfortable. Or, maybe, I should post a thread so that others that have been told this will know as well and I am pretty sure there are others.
For the record, Christian sent me this out of concern for what was being said about me. I thanked him for it and I really do appreciate it.
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I would let it go through Rutt. Let Rutt know that you were voted in as a mod by everyone. ( there is a thread on it). And you were just a suprised as everyone else about D.
If you PM Sara, she will think that you can see PM's or Rutt is ratting to you.
I think Rutt will pass on the info. If not, one of us could PM her that we heard rumers and wanted to set the record straight.
If you PM Sara, she will think that you can see PM's or Rutt is ratting to you.
I think Rutt will pass on the info. If not, one of us could PM her that we heard rumers and wanted to set the record straight.
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She was ask too and refused
Patrick ask both of you at the same time.
Dennis kids with everyone being possessive he does not seem like the type or ever i noticed on the forum.
Like chris said you where voted in.
Patrick ask both of you at the same time.
Dennis kids with everyone being possessive he does not seem like the type or ever i noticed on the forum.
Like chris said you where voted in.
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ORIGINAL: dilo2001gt
She was ask too and refused
Patrick ask both of you at the same time.
She was ask too and refused
Patrick ask both of you at the same time.
Dennis kids with everyone being possessive he does not seem like the type or ever i noticed on the forum.
Like chris said you where voted in.
Like chris said you where voted in.
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We all know Dennis was a major cyber-flirt.....and yes it is a fact that at times he took things personal and became possesive of girls in the forum...that is not a knock on you Paige...not at all!! But Mark...you know as well as I do that what I said is the truth. There have been plenty of times where you could tell he was getting ticked at certain people that were flirting with "his" girls...again, not a knock on the women of HF. I honestly think that Lawwyfe has issues....she contradicted herself in the post that caused all this. She posted a reply supporting dennis and Lane, then made another post a page later ripping lane apart...so take her comments with a grain of salt Paige...we all wanted you here
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I talked to Chris (Ruttdog) for over an hour on the phone on Friday night. We had a long talk about all of this. He's like us, he really likes his friendships he's made on here and knows he was thrown in the middle with no justification other then he's a cop or he's friends with Jeremy. The day this all happened was the first day in a month he posted because of school. Anyway, from talking to him he is a very good guy and he had no right to be singled out like that.
He even wants to become a Moderator. I told him to PM Patrick about it.
Paige: Chris sees the same thing we all do, which Mike opened my eyes to. Dennis has/had some kind of "thing" for all the females on here that would give him more then the time of day. You never flirted with him in my book. If anything, you have been more subtle about his obvious attempts to flirt then any other female on here, so don't worry.
Sarah is like Dennis, as she twists things around to make herself look good. She is a HUGE hypocrit, as she tells me in PM's she does not care and wants to stay neutral, and yet she gets involved and defends a man that gives her attention she obviously can't get in the real world
As one of our very respectful members told me in a PM, "Every time she tries to say something smart she just makes herself look more stupid." There were a few other comments made to me about her, but that was the one that made me chuckle like a 200 year old Santa Clause She's starting to take after the Novel posts from me lol
Paige: Don't be worried about what a woman like that says about you. You are a very friendly non-biased friend, while she seems to always have a story that doesn't match the last story she told, and it always focuses about her supposed neutral or non-biased opinions that ironically support Dennis. She's not worth the time of day in my eyes after all of this. That's not the kind of person you want as a friend in your life.
He even wants to become a Moderator. I told him to PM Patrick about it.
Paige: Chris sees the same thing we all do, which Mike opened my eyes to. Dennis has/had some kind of "thing" for all the females on here that would give him more then the time of day. You never flirted with him in my book. If anything, you have been more subtle about his obvious attempts to flirt then any other female on here, so don't worry.
Sarah is like Dennis, as she twists things around to make herself look good. She is a HUGE hypocrit, as she tells me in PM's she does not care and wants to stay neutral, and yet she gets involved and defends a man that gives her attention she obviously can't get in the real world
As one of our very respectful members told me in a PM, "Every time she tries to say something smart she just makes herself look more stupid."
There were a few other comments made to me about her, but that was the one that made me chuckle like a 200 year old Santa Clause She's starting to take after the Novel posts from me lol Paige: Don't be worried about what a woman like that says about you. You are a very friendly non-biased friend, while she seems to always have a story that doesn't match the last story she told, and it always focuses about her supposed neutral or non-biased opinions that ironically support Dennis. She's not worth the time of day in my eyes after all of this. That's not the kind of person you want as a friend in your life.
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We all know Dennis was a major cyber-flirt.....and yes it is a fact that at times he took things personal and became possesive of girls in the forum...that is not a knock on you Paige...not at all!! But Mark...you know as well as I do that what I said is the truth. There have been plenty of times where you could tell he was getting ticked at certain people that were flirting with "his" girls...again, not a knock on the women of HF. I honestly think that Lawwyfe has issues....she contradicted herself in the post that caused all this. She posted a reply supporting dennis and Lane, then made another post a page later ripping lane apart...so take her comments with a grain of salt Paige...we all wanted you here
We all know Dennis was a major cyber-flirt.....and yes it is a fact that at times he took things personal and became possesive of girls in the forum...that is not a knock on you Paige...not at all!! But Mark...you know as well as I do that what I said is the truth. There have been plenty of times where you could tell he was getting ticked at certain people that were flirting with "his" girls...again, not a knock on the women of HF. I honestly think that Lawwyfe has issues....she contradicted herself in the post that caused all this. She posted a reply supporting dennis and Lane, then made another post a page later ripping lane apart...so take her comments with a grain of salt Paige...we all wanted you here
I'm still pissed that she had the nerve to talk **** like that, having no knowledge of what she was talking about.
I have to tell you guys... I have never cared for her and I'm not just saying this now because of what she's said. I say that based solely on her posts, I've never spoken to her outside the context of the forum. But, to me she always has a complaint and just overall seems bitchy.
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I talked to Chris (Ruttdog) for over an hour on the phone on Friday night. We had a long talk about all of this. He's like us, he really likes his friendships he's made on here and knows he was thrown in the middle with no justification other then he's a cop or he's friends with Jeremy. The day this all happened was the first day in a month he posted because of school. Anyway, from talking to him he is a very good guy and he had no right to be singled out like that.
He even wants to become a Moderator. I told him to PM Patrick about it.
Paige: Chris sees the same thing we all do, which Mike opened my eyes to. Dennis has/had some kind of "thing" for all the females on here that would give him more then the time of day. You never flirted with him in my book. If anything, you have been more subtle about his obvious attempts to flirt then any other female on here, so don't worry.
Sarah is like Dennis, as she twists things around to make herself look good. She is a HUGE hypocrit, as she tells me in PM's she does not care and wants to stay neutral, and yet she gets involved and defends a man that gives her attention she obviously can't get in the real world
As one of our very respectful members told me in a PM, "Every time she tries to say something smart she just makes herself look more stupid." There were a few other comments made to me about her, but that was the one that made me chuckle like a 200 year old Santa Clause She's starting to take after the Novel posts from me lol
Paige: Don't be worried about what a woman like that says about you. You are a very friendly non-biased friend, while she seems to always have a story that doesn't match the last story she told, and it always focuses about her supposed neutral or non-biased opinions that ironically support Dennis. She's not worth the time of day in my eyes after all of this. That's not the kind of person you want as a friend in your life.
I talked to Chris (Ruttdog) for over an hour on the phone on Friday night. We had a long talk about all of this. He's like us, he really likes his friendships he's made on here and knows he was thrown in the middle with no justification other then he's a cop or he's friends with Jeremy. The day this all happened was the first day in a month he posted because of school. Anyway, from talking to him he is a very good guy and he had no right to be singled out like that.
He even wants to become a Moderator. I told him to PM Patrick about it.
Paige: Chris sees the same thing we all do, which Mike opened my eyes to. Dennis has/had some kind of "thing" for all the females on here that would give him more then the time of day. You never flirted with him in my book. If anything, you have been more subtle about his obvious attempts to flirt then any other female on here, so don't worry.
Sarah is like Dennis, as she twists things around to make herself look good. She is a HUGE hypocrit, as she tells me in PM's she does not care and wants to stay neutral, and yet she gets involved and defends a man that gives her attention she obviously can't get in the real world
As one of our very respectful members told me in a PM, "Every time she tries to say something smart she just makes herself look more stupid."
There were a few other comments made to me about her, but that was the one that made me chuckle like a 200 year old Santa Clause She's starting to take after the Novel posts from me lol Paige: Don't be worried about what a woman like that says about you. You are a very friendly non-biased friend, while she seems to always have a story that doesn't match the last story she told, and it always focuses about her supposed neutral or non-biased opinions that ironically support Dennis. She's not worth the time of day in my eyes after all of this. That's not the kind of person you want as a friend in your life.
Dennis was a major flirt ...but I didn't mind, hell I am too! I was never offended or took any of it personal and I certainly never considered or thought we had a "thing"!
Now back to flirting ... [8D]